If you have been reading entertainment news (or even regular news) you may have heard about Paris Hilton's most recent obnoxious behavior. In case you haven't you can read Tyler Durden's amusing take on it on his blog (www.wwtdd.com). I don't think highly of Paris Hilton in the first place. I think she wastes the resources that she is so fortunate to have been given because she was born to a wealthy and permissive family. Generally Paris Hilton and a business blog are like oil and water but in this case I think we can discuss her actions to make a point. Her recent behavior reminds us to mind our mouths and to avoid documenting our nasty thoughts or it will probably come back to bite us.
Racist, sexist, anti-Semitic, or bigoted thoughts don't really belong in a civilized and enlightened society. However, there are currently no thought police patrolling our brainwaves so we can all think whatever we want. Problems start when negative or insensitive thoughts somehow make their way through our brains and spew out of our mouths. If you have been cultivating negative sweeping generalizations that describe any group of people do yourself and your career a huge favor and never let those thoughts become words. But if you do, for heavens sake, don't write them down, tape record them, or videotape yourself saying awful things.
We live in a world of tell-all books, reality shows, and too much information on TV. Just because celebrities share all of their thoughts doesn't mean that it's a good idea. Danny Bonaduce, star of VH-1's show called Breaking Bonaduce, lost his job as a DJ at a radio station after his bosses got wind of his crazy and self destructive antics. Michael Richards probably can't get a gig anywhere after his racist rant at a comedy club in LA. Isaiah Washington from Grey's Anatomy was sent to some kind of rehab for using an anti-gay term in public. And even Nicky Hilton, the less frightening half of the Hilton sisters, may lose an endorsement deal with a Florida hotel after the investors saw Paris's video in which Nicky is amused by her sister's ravings.
Paris Exposed is a website which offers Paris's private diaries, sex tapes, and other bizarre personal videos that she didn't take with her when she moved. Her attorneys have managed to temporarily shut the site down but millions of people have read her diaries and seen these tapes. If she has any sense at all she won't record anymore of her "thoughts" or actions. If I were in her shoes I would just move to another country. Like Nepal or outer Mongolia. Be careful what you say.
Be even more careful what you write. And be most careful of what you put on film. Your words can hurt someone else and if they do, those words will also wind up hurting you.